Marriage is meant to be for a lifetime this is why a woman should see beyond the wedding thing and look towards building a perfect home with the right man. I want you to bear in mind that whatever decision you make in the choice of a life partner, is what you’ll live with for the rest of your life.
Unlike a commodity, marriage can never be reversed immediately you utter the “I do” words. Which is a promise you’re expected to live with for the rest of your life. Don’t plan a wedding rather you should think of the marriage as the real thing. Often, I do hear young ladies who are yet to get married giggling about what I call an open performance “wedding” my wedding must be one in town… My anko/asoebi girls must be this and that…
Don’t forget that wedding is just a secondary affair; after the days dinning and winning, you’re left alone with your partner to face the reality of what marriage is. This is the more reason you need to prepare your spirit, soul and body so you could be able to tell if that man you’re currently planning to walk down the aisle with is good for your personality or otherwise. This boils than to the fact that you’re in charge of whatever decisions you make today, this is why you need not be influenced by anyone or anything.
Here are some examples of men you should never get entangled with
1.)The money man: He believes life is all about the money;he gives the woman all she needs materially and sees every other of her needs as less important. This is the kind of man that wouldn’t fail to say after all, I provide you with all the money you need!
To him money is all needed to keep a woman.
2.)The difficult man: He is stubborn, arrogant and rigid. He is unfriendly and fails to understand the rule of flexibility. To some extent you’re so scared to ask or indulge him in anything.
3.)Mr Too Hot: He is hot tempered,flares up over little things,he is too serious, his rules and decisions are final. In fact, his hands her never too heavy for him to raise!
4.)Mummy’s boy: He’s indecisive,not matured emotionally, he nags slot. Everything you do, is not as good as his mum’s. In fact,whenever a mis-understanding ensues between you two, he is so quick to make a report. A man who is ready for marriage, should bear in mind;he is no longer a teenage boy!
5.)Every woman’s man: He is a flirt. Every woman is a sample to him.
6.)The single man: He is not concerned in fostering any cordial relationship. He lives his life like there’s no one in the picture. He barely puts a call across to know how you’re doing. He is more comfortable being around his friends. He values his business and hobbies. Although you’re together, he is a complete stranger.
7.)The analgesic man: For him you are just a problem solver,a bed mate, a pain reliever and someone who is needed when he needs moral support. To him you’re nothing but an object of exploit.
If you’re already married before discovering this, then you need to take it to God in prayers.
Let your man’s love be a gift that you would desire to open everyday…
